Pope Francis made the news yesterday saying he won't
judge gay priests. It is the
first time a Pope has spoken
openly on the topic, the significance of which is in acknowledging
there are “gay” priests whom he defined as those with a “tendency” to
same-sex orientation. He did not suggest any forthcoming change in the
Church’s position against homosexual activity.
Surprisingly, the Pope’s comments
came on the heels of an announcement by Exodus International (an evangelical ministry
helping those who struggle with same-sex orientation) that it was closing
its doors. Exodus President Alan Chambers said it was time for a new
season of ministry: to “reduce fear and come alongside
churches to become safe, welcoming, and mutually transforming communities.” The
emphasis of future ministry will be on helping those tempted with same-sex
feelings to live a life of celibacy and purity—just as the Church presently
does with ‘heterosexual’ singles.
The Pope's words acknowledged that persons with ‘same-sex’ tendencies are no different from anyone who “searches for the Lord
and has good will [good intentions].” While it may take some time to digest all of this and its impact, one
thing resonates with me: evangelicals have a lot of work to do to change perceptions of hate and rejection for those of love and compassion.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Monday, July 29, 2013
Are You Enraptured?
Can you imagine an army captain telling his wife he will soon return from
the war in Afghanistan, only to hear her say, “Can you wait for a while before returning; I’m
busy.” When Christ returns for His Bride, she will
be “looking forward to, or earnestly desiring, the day and hurrying it along,” NLT, ASV, (2 Pet 3:12). The Bride Christ returns to, and for, will be ecstatic—not indifferent.
Whenever I write about the rapture, the number of my reader goes up. People are curious. But how many believers are enraptured with the thought? If you’re
like me, your desire for His return increases with hard circumstances, and decreases with soft ones! And if we are really “strangers and aliens” in this world, why do our preachers focus their sermons on helping us to live smarter and better on earth, a
“me-centered’ gospel that asks 'what can God do for me?' Take a look at $ million Christian book titles, “Every Day a Friday: How to Be Happier 7 Days a Week, or “Become a Better You:
7 Keys to Improving Your Life” or, “God
Wants You Happy.” Will these ‘reads’ have you panting for the
return of Jesus?
Does this mean Christ won't return until things on earth
are hard enough, individually and corporately, to dispel ambivalence and incite passion? It might, if the condition for His return is a heart-rending love-hunger. Does the Lover of our souls deserve anything less? The crown of righteousness awaits all those who eagerly look forward to His appearing (2 Tim. 4:8).
Friday, July 26, 2013
Does God Keep the Sabbath?
If you were to ask me what I like to do the most, I would answer ‘nothing.’
Even though I am retired, I am busier than I want to be on most days. I am happy when everything
on my ‘to-do’ list is done, and I have “nothing” to do. I enjoy “nothing” more
than anything. But, then again, is there really any such thing! Aren't we always working on things, like our character, or our
relationships, or on things with God?
One time, after Jesus healed a lame man on the Sabbath and told him to pick up his bed, the Pharisees were so upset with Jesus, they wanted to kill Him. Instead of seeing God at work, they saw a man ‘working’ on the Sabbath. When the recently restored man was asked to explain himself, he told them it was Jesus who had given the unlawful order to “work” on the Sabbath.
When the angry Pharisees approached Jesus, He revealed His Father's work ethic: “My Father is always working, and so am I” (John 5:17). Apparently, no one imagined God might not keep the Sabbath. Or, in our vernacular, never take a day off! Thank God! After all, if I am His work, (Eph. 2:10), I’d hate to think He might be on sabbatical when I call.
One time, after Jesus healed a lame man on the Sabbath and told him to pick up his bed, the Pharisees were so upset with Jesus, they wanted to kill Him. Instead of seeing God at work, they saw a man ‘working’ on the Sabbath. When the recently restored man was asked to explain himself, he told them it was Jesus who had given the unlawful order to “work” on the Sabbath.
When the angry Pharisees approached Jesus, He revealed His Father's work ethic: “My Father is always working, and so am I” (John 5:17). Apparently, no one imagined God might not keep the Sabbath. Or, in our vernacular, never take a day off! Thank God! After all, if I am His work, (Eph. 2:10), I’d hate to think He might be on sabbatical when I call.
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Thursday, July 25, 2013
One Day at a Time
A few years ago, I started closing my emails and letters
with the phrase “Looking Forward.” Although I am aware the statement appears unremarkable,
as in “Looking forward to seeing you,” my intention is deliberate. My meaning
is, “I am looking forward—not backward. The ambiguity of my ‘closing’ is there
by design—hidden inside an otherwise innocuous statement.
I never imagined how significant this statement of faith was to become. Since February when I had surgery for pancreatic cancer, I have tried to get back to normal. But I know I must rather embrace a more forward-looking view, a new normal that includes the uncertainty of cancer’s return. Without looking back, and not knowing what lies ahead, I must live one day at a time.
I never imagined how significant this statement of faith was to become. Since February when I had surgery for pancreatic cancer, I have tried to get back to normal. But I know I must rather embrace a more forward-looking view, a new normal that includes the uncertainty of cancer’s return. Without looking back, and not knowing what lies ahead, I must live one day at a time.
Today I read a cancer survivor newsletter that said, “Don't look back, but remember what makes you happy [each day].” What makes me ‘happy’ is pleasing my Father by living one day at a time. Is it working? Not quite, but like Paul, “I [continue to] focus on this one thing: forgetting the
past and looking forward to what lies ahead [one day at a time]” (Philip
3:13 NLT).
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Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Preoccupied: Me-occupied, or He-occupied
One’s occupation, or vocation, is that to which he or she is especially drawn and for which he or she is well-suited and
qualified. Though today the concept is secular, it originated in the Bible. The nobility of one’s occupation is
central to the doctrine that God has created each person with gifts to be
employed for specific purposes that will fulfill God' purposes for him and Himself (Eph 2:10).
For this reason, Paul warns, “Do not neglect the spiritual gift(s) within you; take pains to be absorbed in them so that your progress will be evident to all, paying close attention to yourself; persevere in these things” (1 Tim 4:14-16, edited). In other words, we are to be resolutely “preoccupied” with our “occupation.”
What then keeps us from being so occupied? Is it perhaps that we are already preoccupied: “me-occupied.” This principle has been proven to me over and again: to the degree I am absorbed in my view of circumstances, I simply cannot occupy myself with His, and even worse, with HIM. Evidently, judging by the strength of his words, Paul must have known how challenging this would be. I wonder. Did he also find himself sometimes more “me-occupied” than “He-occupied”?
For this reason, Paul warns, “Do not neglect the spiritual gift(s) within you; take pains to be absorbed in them so that your progress will be evident to all, paying close attention to yourself; persevere in these things” (1 Tim 4:14-16, edited). In other words, we are to be resolutely “preoccupied” with our “occupation.”
What then keeps us from being so occupied? Is it perhaps that we are already preoccupied: “me-occupied.” This principle has been proven to me over and again: to the degree I am absorbed in my view of circumstances, I simply cannot occupy myself with His, and even worse, with HIM. Evidently, judging by the strength of his words, Paul must have known how challenging this would be. I wonder. Did he also find himself sometimes more “me-occupied” than “He-occupied”?
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Friday, July 19, 2013
Living without a Pancreas
People ask me, “Can you live without a pancreas?” The answer is ‘yes’—I'm alive, and I do not have a fully functioning pancreas. The pancreas, which lies behind the stomach, plays
a vital role in digestion, releasing enzymes that break down proteins, carbos, and fats, “mixing” with your food to make it nutritionally useful.
When I had surgery in February to remove a tumor from my pancreas, the doctors also removed a large slice of my pancreas—rendering it dysfunctional, which now requires me to take enzyme pills to do this ‘mixing.’ And if I forget to take my pills, no matter how much nutritious food I eat, it is not useful (and I could die from malnutrition).
The writer of Hebrews uses this idea of ‘mixing’ to give us a vivid ‘word picture’: “The word which they heard did not profit them (was not useful) because it was not mixed with faith” (4:2), suggesting that the development of faith is like the body's process of “mixing” enzymes with food. In short, when the Word we ‘hear’ [eat] is not mixed with “dynamic” faith [action/obedience], it is not useful. Doesn't this open up James' words: “Be doers of the Word, not hearers only…Can't you see that faith without good works is useless?...for just as the body is dead without [a pancreas], so also faith is dead without good works” (James 1:22; 2:20, 26).
When I had surgery in February to remove a tumor from my pancreas, the doctors also removed a large slice of my pancreas—rendering it dysfunctional, which now requires me to take enzyme pills to do this ‘mixing.’ And if I forget to take my pills, no matter how much nutritious food I eat, it is not useful (and I could die from malnutrition).
The writer of Hebrews uses this idea of ‘mixing’ to give us a vivid ‘word picture’: “The word which they heard did not profit them (was not useful) because it was not mixed with faith” (4:2), suggesting that the development of faith is like the body's process of “mixing” enzymes with food. In short, when the Word we ‘hear’ [eat] is not mixed with “dynamic” faith [action/obedience], it is not useful. Doesn't this open up James' words: “Be doers of the Word, not hearers only…Can't you see that faith without good works is useless?...for just as the body is dead without [a pancreas], so also faith is dead without good works” (James 1:22; 2:20, 26).
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
George or Trayvon: who do you trust?
I can’t let the George Zimmerman trial go without some
comment. The tragedy of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin’s death has resonated with
Americans no matter how they view this event. Though I won't offer an opinion, I do think we should reflect on what is happening in 21st century America: Fear and Distrust.
Though fear in America is not new (growing up in the Cold War era, I remember when everyone was afraid of the Russians), one has to ask if current circumstances—terrorism infiltrating our country, and an increasing crime rate in our cities—are causing Americans to be more fearful (as was the case, allegedly, with George Zimmerman).
In a recent poll, a majority of Americans said the world is more dangerous than ever before; and they are increasingly distrustful. Though this is not a specific sign of the end times, fear and distrust have become a sign of the times. How incongruent, then, that at this most fearful time in history, there is a movement underway to eliminate “In God we Trust” from the national conscience—to remove it from our currency, when the opposite should be happening! “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you; surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand” (Is. 44:10). Who do you trust?
Though fear in America is not new (growing up in the Cold War era, I remember when everyone was afraid of the Russians), one has to ask if current circumstances—terrorism infiltrating our country, and an increasing crime rate in our cities—are causing Americans to be more fearful (as was the case, allegedly, with George Zimmerman).
In a recent poll, a majority of Americans said the world is more dangerous than ever before; and they are increasingly distrustful. Though this is not a specific sign of the end times, fear and distrust have become a sign of the times. How incongruent, then, that at this most fearful time in history, there is a movement underway to eliminate “In God we Trust” from the national conscience—to remove it from our currency, when the opposite should be happening! “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you; surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand” (Is. 44:10). Who do you trust?
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Blind or Just Short-sighted
Over my 20+ years of employment with the Federal government,
I had many co-workers from different regions of the U.S. One time a co-worker from the South, said: “I
miss magnolia trees; there are none in California.” Of course that’s false—we had a magnolia tree in our yard at home. Another time, a co-worker told me there were no drive-up banks in California. Both of these ‘foreigners’ had come to false conclusions based on a small vantage point. They were short-sighted.
Short-sightedness began with Adam, who, at Eve's beckoning, succumbed to the wiles of forbidden fruit (symbol of desires that claim our immediate attention) and concluded it was a better offer than God’s long-term plans. In hindsight, you and I ask astonishingly, ‘how could anyone be so short-sighted?’
But are we really any less so?’ Whether by ignorance or willful neglect of God’s truth, all of us have a propensity for short-sightedness, “falling short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23). After reminding his readers they have inherited God’s divine nature, whose qualities include moral excellence, self-control, perseverance, godliness, love, etc., Peter tells them if we were not growing in these, they must be either blind or shortsighted” (2 Pet 1:9). Let us examine, honestly, our own short-sightedness. “Open our eyes so we may behold these wonderful things” (Ps. 119:18).
Short-sightedness began with Adam, who, at Eve's beckoning, succumbed to the wiles of forbidden fruit (symbol of desires that claim our immediate attention) and concluded it was a better offer than God’s long-term plans. In hindsight, you and I ask astonishingly, ‘how could anyone be so short-sighted?’
But are we really any less so?’ Whether by ignorance or willful neglect of God’s truth, all of us have a propensity for short-sightedness, “falling short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23). After reminding his readers they have inherited God’s divine nature, whose qualities include moral excellence, self-control, perseverance, godliness, love, etc., Peter tells them if we were not growing in these, they must be either blind or shortsighted” (2 Pet 1:9). Let us examine, honestly, our own short-sightedness. “Open our eyes so we may behold these wonderful things” (Ps. 119:18).
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Monday, July 15, 2013
Can't keep my hands off of you
When I lived in Asia, I observed the custom of men
holding hands as they walk. In case of a stumble, having someone there to lend a helping hand is a good thing.
Even more, it is a declaration of friendship between 2 who have a hand in each other’s
lives: “Two
people are better than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one
falls, the other can reach out and help” (Eccl. 4:9-11). On the same hand, God says, “Though the godly
stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand” (Ps. 37:24).
Putting yourself in someone else’s hands is a sign of some dependence. That said, are we not, then, like putty in the hands of God? “As the clay is in the potter's hand, so are you in my hand” (Jeremiah 18:6)—a very challenging notion for the Western self-made-man who always wants to have the upper hand. Indeed, no dignified, liberated life form imagines himself a lump of clay.
When the Potter re-shapes you unexpectedly, do you respond, “Thy will be done,” or do you react, “Stop, you're doing it wrong! How clumsy can you be? What’s wrong with your hands” (Is. 45:9, NLT/NIV, ed). Every time we murmur about God's work in us, are we not saying, “keep your hands to yourself.” But how useless. He always wins hands down. And besides, He loves you far too much to keep His hands off of you!
Putting yourself in someone else’s hands is a sign of some dependence. That said, are we not, then, like putty in the hands of God? “As the clay is in the potter's hand, so are you in my hand” (Jeremiah 18:6)—a very challenging notion for the Western self-made-man who always wants to have the upper hand. Indeed, no dignified, liberated life form imagines himself a lump of clay.
When the Potter re-shapes you unexpectedly, do you respond, “Thy will be done,” or do you react, “Stop, you're doing it wrong! How clumsy can you be? What’s wrong with your hands” (Is. 45:9, NLT/NIV, ed). Every time we murmur about God's work in us, are we not saying, “keep your hands to yourself.” But how useless. He always wins hands down. And besides, He loves you far too much to keep His hands off of you!
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Thursday, July 11, 2013
Two Little Spots on my Liver
After two months of chemo therapy for pancreatic cancer, a CT scan revealed that 2 spots on my liver had gotten bigger, or so it seemed. The fact is that these spots are so small that the increase could be explained by the way 2 different radiologists measure them. Regardless,
I am still receiving chemo infusions. And, I will have another CT scan
next month. If there is no further change
in these two little spots, we will assume they are not cancer, but cysts. Then, after 6 weeks of radiation therapy, we wait and
see.
But more important than revelations on a CT scan are revelations of truth I have received during this present trial, many of which are returning to me from posts I wrote in the past. For example, in August 2009, I wrote: Toward the end of his earthly life, Jesus said “the ruler of this world is coming, and he finds nothing in me” (John 14:0). Peter explains that Jesus is “the lamb without spot” (1 Peter 1:19). There was not even one spot for the devil to get a foothold in Jesus’ heart.
I do not know if I have two little spots of cancer on my liver. But what a great reminder to me that someday Jesus will return for a Bride that is without “spot” (Eph. 5:27). And, in Christ, I am already spotless.
But more important than revelations on a CT scan are revelations of truth I have received during this present trial, many of which are returning to me from posts I wrote in the past. For example, in August 2009, I wrote: Toward the end of his earthly life, Jesus said “the ruler of this world is coming, and he finds nothing in me” (John 14:0). Peter explains that Jesus is “the lamb without spot” (1 Peter 1:19). There was not even one spot for the devil to get a foothold in Jesus’ heart.
I do not know if I have two little spots of cancer on my liver. But what a great reminder to me that someday Jesus will return for a Bride that is without “spot” (Eph. 5:27). And, in Christ, I am already spotless.
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Wednesday, July 10, 2013
What can we learn from the Asiana flight crash?
We are now learning more about what may have caused last Saturday’s
Asiana airplane crash at the San Francisco Airport. But the thing that caught my attention, in
particular, was this: the airplane was flying too low. Only a few days earlier,
I had been reflecting on a spiritual principle: if you want to change your
attitude, you must change your altitude; failure to do so may cause you to crash and burn.
When our circumstances reach a critical point (we feel like we’re coming in for a bad landing), it is crucial that we see things as God does. He says, “For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Is. 55:9). Is this not why Paul exhorts “set your mind on things above, not on earth” (Col. 3:2)?—more altitude?
David wished for the “wings like a dove that he could fly away and rest!” (Ps. 55:6). But you and I don’t have to wish—we have the wings of a dove, the Holy Spirit. He is the One who will “make our feet like the feet of a deer, and cause us to stand on high places” (Ps. 18:33). I can almost hear Jesus saying, “You have heard it said that 'Attitude is everything'. But I say to you 'Altitude is everything'.”
When our circumstances reach a critical point (we feel like we’re coming in for a bad landing), it is crucial that we see things as God does. He says, “For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Is. 55:9). Is this not why Paul exhorts “set your mind on things above, not on earth” (Col. 3:2)?—more altitude?
David wished for the “wings like a dove that he could fly away and rest!” (Ps. 55:6). But you and I don’t have to wish—we have the wings of a dove, the Holy Spirit. He is the One who will “make our feet like the feet of a deer, and cause us to stand on high places” (Ps. 18:33). I can almost hear Jesus saying, “You have heard it said that 'Attitude is everything'. But I say to you 'Altitude is everything'.”
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Tuesday, July 9, 2013
Choking to death
I received a letter from a friend, a young man with a wife and two small children, telling me he is being careful not to spend too much of his time fixing
and changing small things around his new house.
I could identify with that.
Having just sold 2 houses and moved in to a new one, I know a lot about these things. Since moving in our ‘new’
home, we have been occupied with making it ‘ours’ (new paint,
carpets, blinds, landscaping), in addition to the regular things that occupy our attention. Yesterday was a day of extreme occupation, and distraction, for me—with many unexpected activities, as well as those that were planned (several frustrating calls to IRS, DMV and Social Security).
How did I handle it? Well, in baseball jargon, I choked (a choker underperforms under pressure). Jesus said, “the worries of this life… and the desires for other things… choke the Word, making it unfruitful” (Mar 4:19). Note that is not things, but our “desire for things” (in my case, for order and routine). Not to worry. I'm praying that today when these things pop up, like a fly ball, instead of choking, I will draw upon the strength of His Word, and 'catch' them before I choke; and rather I might choke them to death! (Gal. 5:24)
How did I handle it? Well, in baseball jargon, I choked (a choker underperforms under pressure). Jesus said, “the worries of this life… and the desires for other things… choke the Word, making it unfruitful” (Mar 4:19). Note that is not things, but our “desire for things” (in my case, for order and routine). Not to worry. I'm praying that today when these things pop up, like a fly ball, instead of choking, I will draw upon the strength of His Word, and 'catch' them before I choke; and rather I might choke them to death! (Gal. 5:24)
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Monday, July 8, 2013
The Coming of the Lord is Near: Don't be Afraid!
The effect of Egypt’s implosion last week on the instability of its own government and of
the region has Bible students asking (again), “Is the end-time almost here?” Beyond
the wars and rumors of wars in the Middle East, there are, of course, other signs of
impending end-times: epic increases in extreme weather; escalating hatred of Israel, world-wide persecution
of Christians, and a surge in apostasy.
Unfortunately, while the end-time is welcomed by most believers, it is a fearful thing to others. Why? Fear of the unknown? Feeling unsafe? Displaced? And might this be why Jesus said, “do not be troubled [afraid]; I’m going to prepare a place [of refuge] for you” (John 14:2).
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Thursday, July 4, 2013
Where do you stand? Or are you sitting this one out?
Last week, large crowds stood on the steps of the Supreme Court, taking
a stand for or against gay marriage. But it is only one of several hot-button
issues on the table these days. Is the cultural shift causing more controversy?
One thing is sure (and Independence Day
is a good day to say it): we are a nation of people who love to exercise their
right to take a stand.
That said, I find it pathetically ironic that just last week supporters of California’s Proposition 8 tried to take a stand against legalizing gay marriage, but were told they had no standing to bring it before the Court! Is this a sign of things to come? Will those with a biblical worldview be progressively marginalized? Will we increasingly lose standing in the court of public opinion?
Who can know? But this we do know: the Day is coming when we will stand before God’s judgment seat and give an account of the things we stood for (2 Cor. 5:10). And sitting that one out will not be an option!
That said, I find it pathetically ironic that just last week supporters of California’s Proposition 8 tried to take a stand against legalizing gay marriage, but were told they had no standing to bring it before the Court! Is this a sign of things to come? Will those with a biblical worldview be progressively marginalized? Will we increasingly lose standing in the court of public opinion?
Who can know? But this we do know: the Day is coming when we will stand before God’s judgment seat and give an account of the things we stood for (2 Cor. 5:10). And sitting that one out will not be an option!
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Wednesday, July 3, 2013
Was Abraham the First Pitcher?
Are we living in a time when, in order to be a popular, a pastor must
be a perfect pitcher? One of the
contemporary meanings of the word “pitch” is to promote or sell a person or
product. A popular show on ABC, called “The Shark Tank” features aspiring entrepreneurs
pitching their businesses/products to a panel of successful, sharky, venture capitalists, hoping to leave the show with an investment.
Does there appear to be a lot of pitching in the church these days—pastors pitching their preaching, products and personalities; and churches pitching programs? Locally, a church funding campaign, called “Please Hand Me a Brick,” is pitching to raise to $1.5
million over and above members’ normal tithes by 'selling' $1,000 bricks.
Ironically, the Bible uses the word “pitcher” to describe Abraham who, apparently despising bricks and building programs, “pitched” his tent wherever he stayed (Gen 2:8), a symbolic act of detachment, “looking to a city with eternal foundations, designed and built by God” (Heb. 11:10). That said, Abraham was a builder: while he was pitching tents, he was building altars to the Lord. And when Abraham pulled up stakes, all that was left behind was a monument of devotion to God. Might that be our legacy too?
Ironically, the Bible uses the word “pitcher” to describe Abraham who, apparently despising bricks and building programs, “pitched” his tent wherever he stayed (Gen 2:8), a symbolic act of detachment, “looking to a city with eternal foundations, designed and built by God” (Heb. 11:10). That said, Abraham was a builder: while he was pitching tents, he was building altars to the Lord. And when Abraham pulled up stakes, all that was left behind was a monument of devotion to God. Might that be our legacy too?
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Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Does Absence Make the Heart Grow Fonder?
One of the outcomes of increased technology is greater mobility. And more couples than ever are having long distance relationships, which begs the question, “does absence make the heart grow fonder?” Romantics may think so, but
realists know the opposite is just as likely. Face-to-face time is the building
block of any bond.
Likewise, distance will strain our relationship with God. It can cause a loneliness that sends an ambivalent lover looking for someone more present. More than making the heart grow fonder, that long distance feeling can make the heart go wander.
People distance themselves from God for different reasons. The Jews distanced themselves from God when they thought He was unfair. David said un-confessed sin separated him from God. According to Paul, long distance feelings from God are a result of neglect (Eph. 4:18). The cure: increase your face-time.
“When You said, Seek My face, my heart said to You, Your face, O Lord, I shall seek”(Ps 27:8)... So then, Let us rise early and go to the vineyards; Let us see whether the vine has budded and its blossoms have opened, and whether the pomegranates have bloomed. There I will give you my love (Song of Songs 7:12).
Likewise, distance will strain our relationship with God. It can cause a loneliness that sends an ambivalent lover looking for someone more present. More than making the heart grow fonder, that long distance feeling can make the heart go wander.
People distance themselves from God for different reasons. The Jews distanced themselves from God when they thought He was unfair. David said un-confessed sin separated him from God. According to Paul, long distance feelings from God are a result of neglect (Eph. 4:18). The cure: increase your face-time.
“When You said, Seek My face, my heart said to You, Your face, O Lord, I shall seek”(Ps 27:8)... So then, Let us rise early and go to the vineyards; Let us see whether the vine has budded and its blossoms have opened, and whether the pomegranates have bloomed. There I will give you my love (Song of Songs 7:12).
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Monday, July 1, 2013
What Time is it in America?
Yesterday “Gay Pride” day was celebrated all across America. And last week’s Supreme Court decision to
advance gay rights gave way to boundless laughing and dancing in the streets. The
words of Solomon come to mind: there is a time for laughing and dancing. But
there is also a time for mourning and weeping (Eccles. 3). Which time is it!?
What lover of God’s Word is not presently mourning the loss of the age-old foundations (Is. 58:12) of Judeo-Christian moral standards? Is this not a time to heed the words of James: “Be miserable and mourn and weep; let your laughter be turned into mourning and your joy to gloom” (James 4:9)?
But this is not just political theater; it’s personal. This is decision time for the many struggling Christian men and women all across America who believe acquiescing to their same-sex orientation will make them happy: “There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death. Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when the laughter ends, the grief remains” (Prov. 14:12-12). Solomon says there is a time to be silent and a time to speak. What time is it in America? It is time to speak the truth in love (Eph 4:15).
What lover of God’s Word is not presently mourning the loss of the age-old foundations (Is. 58:12) of Judeo-Christian moral standards? Is this not a time to heed the words of James: “Be miserable and mourn and weep; let your laughter be turned into mourning and your joy to gloom” (James 4:9)?
But this is not just political theater; it’s personal. This is decision time for the many struggling Christian men and women all across America who believe acquiescing to their same-sex orientation will make them happy: “There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death. Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when the laughter ends, the grief remains” (Prov. 14:12-12). Solomon says there is a time to be silent and a time to speak. What time is it in America? It is time to speak the truth in love (Eph 4:15).
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